This is the time of year when we start thinking about the future and this year more than ever people will be thinking how different their lives will be in 2021.
So, it’s time to take control of your future, we all get affected by the up’s and downs of life and some of us come off worse than others. As long as we learn from them and move on its good character making stuff.
If your last relationship has left you in a bit of an emotional state it’s better to repair the damage before you look for a new relationship. Otherwise, you won’t be able to show them the real you, and you won’t be able to focus on them if you are preoccupied with yourself.
This is so important. If you look for love whilst you are weak and not over your ex you may indeed find someone but they’re only ideal for the who you are right now, and that’s not who you’ll be once you’re recovered – the person you really are underneath.
So, take time out, enjoy your friends and family and wait until you’ve recovered before you start looking for a new partner and when you do – pick someone whose scars are relatively well healed too – as this of course works both ways. That way you can see each other as you really are and start your relationship the way you want it to continue.
Karen X
