Four Golden Rules. So the kids have grown up and you’ve just returned to the dating scene after being married for years. But, help – dating is a whole different ball game now you’re older. Well don’t be disheartened just follow my four Golden Rules and make that good first impression, otherwise there will never…
It’s so much more complex than it was in your 20s! BUT, you are wiser, and you are more tolerant. You know yourself so much better and experience has given you insight into your own needs and wants; consequently, you will make better choices henceforth. Dating at this age and stage of life is good…
A New Year can offer many new opportunities for love and romance. If you are serious about finding love in 2020, try making a few resolutions…… “I will forget about my type”. Frankly put, having a type is easy, but it isn’t the best strategy. Now is the time to branch out. There’s an infinite…
Snow is predicted and it’s important to enjoy it while it lasts. So, if you have any first dates coming up and the weather scuppers your plans, make snow angels in the park with your date. It’s not nearly as daft as it sounds: it gives you both a chance to relax and be a…
You might view the prospect of Christmas without a date as utterly depressing. I see it as more of an opportunity: there are 7.5 million single people in the UK currently looking for love and now is the time they are most likely to be out and about, so you should be too. Say…
You may be starting to feel Blog fatigue. You know how it goes – starting with the best of intentions (yours), looking for something – anything – that resonates with how you are feeling, to throw a chink of light on what a true and meaningful romantic relationship might actually look like, you are bombarded…
In a nutshell, mindful dating is where you listen actively, don’t let your mind wander or jump to conclusions too early. It’s dating with pauses…for time to work out what is happening. Sounds old fashioned but it is definitely worth trying if your current approach is not making you happy. Unlike the ghoster, who will…
When you say you are dating, what is your goal? Are you hoping to find love and commitment or are you just hoping for fun? If we assume that other people’s intentions are similar to our own, you may be disappointed sometimes – we’re not all at the same stage in our dating journeys. Courage,…
It’s a fact that good conversations build trust and understanding in relationships of all kinds. There is a natural pattern of give and take (if there isn’t, then it is not the good kind) that can be a precursor to enhanced communication. However, as we are building our understanding of another person and no…
Loving someone wholeheartedly and unconditionally and being loved equally in return is a dream we’ve all indulged in. You may feel that sounds a bit cynical, but if we are honest, the version we tend to favour is the one in which all our wishes are realised, with no barriers, no heartache and no nagging…
You’ve tried online dating and it has been more than a bit demoralising. You’re wondering what’s wrong – your friends all have partners………. If you are willing to take a long, hard look at yourself, you might find some answers. By the way, you are fine – you are who you are – there…
You’ve looked at the prices. Joining a dating agency is not cheap. You’re probably thinking that there is no way you’re going to pay someone any more of your hard earned money than you have to. What you pay is merely the price – consider what the value is before you make your decision.…
Yesterday I ran into an old friend who said she was not satisfied with the quality of men she was meeting in the world of dating…when I asked why – the first 3 things she mentioned were all physical aspects! As we grow older we all physically age as well as mentally mature and grow.…
When your dating life is going well (which is exactly how you want it to be) you feel more of many things – more positive, more energised, more adventurous, more witty, more beautiful…the list could go on for the rest of this blog. If you are with a dating agency, you will probably have tender…
If you’re looking for love you have probably already been on the receiving end of what passes for manners these days. Why are strangers so cavalier with your feelings in the dating arena? Exactly because that’s what they are – strangers. They have no investment and therefore no interest in making you feel better. To…
Love at first sight is an awfully odd notion: how can you fall in love with someone you don’t know? When you feel that overwhelming emotional rush in response to someone at first meeting, you may just be projecting your own ideals about romance onto a complete stranger. Doesn’t sound very clever does it? What…
If you only feel that you can be drawn towards the most attractive people, then you should be aware that beautiful people are only beautiful until you get to know them and understand their characters – after that they are just human like the rest of us. If you are not succeeding in finding…
It’s affecting us all, in one way or another, but whatever happens and whenever it is resolved, life, in all its glory, will continue….. Why wait? At Sara Eden we all believe that it’s better to be in love than out of it at any time. Join us – it will help you feel…
How to find your soul mate – life’s biggest question…….. You won’t find the answer in algorithms or by completing questionnaires that’s for sure. Some are lucky and come across true and lasting love naturally – they meet, click and blend their lives. With similar backgrounds, aspirations and values it’s likely their passage will be…
This year it will be 31 years since I founded Sara Eden. Many things have changed over the years but one fact has remained constant and that is ……the summer is a really busy time at Sara Eden and a good time to find love. Now it looks as though like the warmer weather…
Look what appeared in our inbox this morning.Thank you Mark and Clare for allowing us to add you to our website. Dear Karen, All We trust you are well. Mark and I just wanted to thank you and everyone at Sara Eden for matching us and organising our introduction. Mark and I first met for…
